Signs of Child Sexual Abuse

Some behavior changes may occur in children that have been sexually abused; these changes may also occur when there is a physical or emotional abuse, or during stressful life circumstances. They include:

  • Physical complaints such as head or stomach aches
  • Fear or dislike of certain people or places
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Depression or Anxiety
  • Delinquent acts and other school problems
  • Low self-esteem
  • A return to younger, babyish behavior
  • Excessive bathing or poor hygiene
  • Running away
  • Eating disorders
  • Passive behavior
  • Withdrawal from family, friends or usual activities
  • Self-destructive behavior, hostility or aggression
  • Drug or alcohol problems
  • Sexual activity or pregnancy at an early age
  • Suicide attempts

Children who are being sexually abused frequently have more specific symptoms, including:

  • Copying adult behavior
  • Persistent sexual play with other children, themselves, toys or pets
  • Displaying sexual knowledge, through language or behavior, that is beyond what is normal for their age
  • Unexplained pain, swelling, bleeding or irritation of the mouth, genital or anal areas; urinary tract infections; sexually transmitted diseases
  • Hints, indirect comments or statements about the abuse